Twin Flame / Soulmate synchronicity after I decided I had to move on

Even after disconnecting and deciding to move on from someone I thought to be my twin flame, I am still getting strong prods from the Universe that she is "the one."

The history with this girl and I is long and complicated and I don't feel the need to get into it. All that matters is that our relationship was heavily founded on the fact that the Universe was strongly insisting it to both of us in the form of synchronicity.

For example, during a conversation at the picnic table in her backyard, we somehow got to the topic of procreation, and as soon as we made the psychic connection between our objectiveness and subjectiveness on the topic, a falcon flew out from a tree just 5 feet or so over us and then went elsewhere. It was incredible. We both just looked at each other wide-eyed, then changed the subject. 

Needless to say, things didn't work out. She was afraid of the significance our relationship held. I was afraid of being unable to meet her needs. We grew apart, and I just moved over 1000 miles away from her because I got a job offer.

 

But even here, the Universe is telling me that our relationship is not over.

 

1. I am staying in a hotel room until I can find an apartment. Right outside my window is a billboard advertising the local hospital, which is named "Lovelace Hospital." On it there is a woman holding a baby. She looks nearly identical to the girl I'm talking about. The text on the billboard reads "tiny miracles."

 

2. The bartender at the bar I went to tonight looked identical to the girl I'm talking about, and had very good advice for me as a newcomer to this town. All day I was seeking direction in my new environment, and I found it at the end of the day when this familiar looking bartender pointed me in the right direction.

 

3. Consulting my Runes about these things as an oracle has offered even more validation. Not seconds after I decided to ask about it, Rune #20, the rune of Journey, literally jumped out of the bag. If you look up Ralph H. Blum's interpretation of this rune, you will see that it is very auspicious for this situation. The 3 main topics of this rune are "Communication, Union, Reunion."

 

I know this post might seem like I'm obsessing over this girl. The thing is, I got past the idea that she was the only one for me long ago. I wouldn't have moved away if I still felt the same way about her. Yet now that I'm here, looking for new opportunities and expanding my horizons, all signs are still pointing to her. I'm not really sure what to make of this, but I plan on following the prayer cited in the interpretation of the Rune that showed itself to me in response to this situation.

 

"I will to will Thy Will."

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I still can't tell if we were just a lesson for each other, or if we're the missing pieces to each other's lives. But I'm not trying to find that answer anymore. I am leaving it in the hands of fate. My only hope is for some form of clarity instead of these ambiguous hints.


Blue Ray said:

If you are meant to be together then she will come back to you.

Sometimes these things have a way of moving your forward to the best possible outcome to both of you.

xx

sounds like you are in love homeboy haha..

I went through all this with someone but he never gave me the time of day, and I had to move away from him. The whole situation embarrassed me terribly because I was obsessed with him but nothing ever came of it. Unfortunately, I still get synchronicities with him regarding his location and his name. It bothers me because it's so many years later.

 

In fact, the past day I've been contemplating throwing away things I had saved like notes on all the synchs that happened with him years ago. I bought a feng shui book yesterday that says to release all things from past love interests so that your present can have a fulfilling love. I've had a boyfriend for quite some time now who I love very much, and I want to help us move forward by clearing out those old papers reminding me of the past person.

I can relate to your twin flame  story. A guy i deeply felt was my twin,we connect very well but because we live so far apart. We lost connection,and i still feel the closeness between us, but I've decided to move on and let nature guild me. The reality of this type of relationship is that it can be very confusing and to others we can appear obsessed. Its best to live life...while still having hope things will work out. "everything happens for a reason".

~kim  

Kind of in the same boat as you. Except who I believed to be mine, who shared the belief(or so I was told) is confused. And I had to move on because I couldn't keep putting so much into it, pouring my heart and soul into it to be let down again and again. I ended things yesterday, whatever it was we had going on. And since I have been focusing mainly on my personal growth since, I feel like I am reconnecting to my guides, and the Source. I feel more stable mood-wise and my confidence has skyrocketed.

Always remember, each life you live is a lesson for your eternal soul. If you truly are twin soul flames, you pair for eternity. No dimension, galaxy, planet, sun or moon can sever that connection. You are the same soul split in two halves. Forever.
Much love, brother, I hope this finds you well. (:

I love you brothers and sisters, you are all worthy of Love :)

Have you heard of Runners and Stayers?
I've gone/going through this currently, and have been prodded by my guides time and time again that this particular male is my Twin Flame. Even when doubt arises, i always "accidently" find something that brought me back to the same conclusion that he is my twin flame.

Runners and Stayers happen when the time is not right. You meet eachother, get along great, then when you want things to get serious you repel. The Stayer, the more spiritual of the two, will recieve signs and recognise the energy. Whereas the Runner, doesn't and because the time is not right, they are drawn away. Your spirit understand the conection and the energy, but the consious does not. So the runner will tryat other relationships (each will inevitably fail). It also is mistaken for a Karmatic Tie (whch was what i thought it was).

I don't know if this is true to you, but I hope it helps in the least :/
Love and Happy Blessings to you
Liberty
http://soulmateassistance.blogspot.com/2010/09/attention-soul-mates-twin-flames-you.html

Those signs are the proof that she thinks about you so much that she connected to your personal universe. She' really loves you :)

Good luck!

I can relate a lot to the posts here.

I feel like I am the Stayer and the Runner has been and still is running away from me. Will she run back to me? Heaven knows but I'm not waiting for her to run back to me because I have to move forward.

Hi Edward.  I've had both a soulmate and a twin flame encounter...

 

I'd say the difference between the two is that the soulmate draws out unknowns within yourself where as the twin tests everything that you feel to be true in your heart...  So with my soulmate there were all the hallmarks of a spiritual relationship - the feeling of knowing that person before, synchronistic events and an affinity I didn't have with anyone else.  However, there was always something not exactly true for me and it sent me on a search for myself (which was lead by the mind) to cure this uncertainty - the result was that eventually I grew from it and no longer needed to be involved with my soulmate at a romantic level. The twin is soooooo different.  They hit you straight in the heart and you know this to be the case - it's the classic concept of cupid since you feel like you're being stabbed right in your centre.  You feel instantly like you could never break the bond because the feelings you have come right from the heart.  This leads to the ultimate self conflict since they seem to share your heart centre though they embody all your opposite values (the polar energy).  You have no doubts about this.  

 

In terms of your own situation it could be either your soulmate or your twin but in any instance the universe will help you to gain what you need from these relationships if you do the inner work.  It might help you to look at your own doubt - is this about how you feel for the girl or how you feel about the universe and the direction it gives you?  Soulmates and twins are always helping us to hold our own - they taught me that the universe doesn't want to carry you, it wants you to find your own feet so dig deep with the uncertainty you're feeling :o)  Trust your own feelings about the relationship as much as you can.  I hope this helps and makes sense!  

The huge differences between the two are unmistakeable and I back up with past comments that the purpose for twin soul partners are often overly analyzed as the one romance. There is much more to the system of twin soul partners than most write about it. Soul growth is the prime purpose of all of these deeply resonating relations. If the desire is to have a deeper soul/heart union in love and enjoyment with one another's company then that will be given and happen in the right timing.

I have experienced multiple "partners" that each served a different roll in my growth. Each one very different, never the same. One pretended we were twin souls and lead me on the path in an emotional attached bond which became what I like to call AFLO (Another Freakin Learning Opportunity). Months down the road the results hit me hard and I had to learn about certain pains, and about myself. This did push me foward in my own path and evolution both mentally and spiritually.

Like Tan says, there is the kind of soul mate partner or "twin" if we want to use that, where it literally hits you right in the heart. All other concepts and blah is dropped and both of you just know. However it is wise to advise, that it is not smart to quickly assume you will be with that person in a snap or that he/she is the one. This too is not the sign for the ultimate relation. It is an opportunity, and has purpose. If it is meant to flourish and go beyond it will, if not it willl eventually dissipate and stop. And some times when a connection is over will be reconnected later, for going foward.

No one is destined to be with anyone, unless we have made an agreement to be with someone on a higher level, for a purpose. If one wishes to have a deep heart resonating soul (twin) partner then by desire, and in right timing such things will come to pass.

Will he/she come back, will he/she be with the twin etc? Keep in mind it's all in what you know about you inside, and not looking for it externally.

Also just wanting to follow up with that from the learning opportunity that was the false twin relation with a woman, I met and connected deeply with another later in time. Just keep self open and continue to work on self, prepare and most importantly center within.

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