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Hello everyone! As many of my friends on here know I've been going through a crash course on twin flame relationships. I've learned very valuable things and have helped a few twin flame couples unite and several others to recognize their other half. We all seem to go through similar steps.

The toughest part of the gradual merger of twin flames is understanding when there needs to be separation for a time. When this happens you may feel you've lost all hope and maybe even think of suicide. I did.When this happens It doesn't seem to make sense, and since the energy between twin flames is so amplified it's difficult to see clearly through all that emotion.

Through careful study and experience I've found a few reasons for why this has to happen sometimes. This may help if it's happening to you. feel free to contact me for council too if this is going on in your life. It's all going to be ok. The reasons are like this......

* It may not be time yet for you to unite even though one or both of you are spiritual enough to recognize each other. You or your twin may be in your last trial to learn how to love and follow your heart over your head. In other words not follow the morals of those around you as opposed to your heart and intuition from God. This is part of the "fruit of the knowledge of good and evil" which caused us to die in the garden of Eden (repeat cycles of reincarnation until we learn and heal the original breach). We were split from our own twin flames in the beginning after that we begin practice at being a couple with soul mates of various kinds. This is in the story of Adam and Lilith and also illustrated in the story of Adam and Eve. They ate the tree of knowledge of good and evil, polarity reigned in thier lives and perspective. Now we are finding connection to the tree of life and reconnecting with our real other half. When they began incarnations, cycles of learning with soul mates and God focused them on learning to do right which is necessary due to living in a Karmic world. In the last bits of learning the knowledge of morals can make us feel manipulated by situations where the choice is the lesser of two evils. Many tests come when twins are about to unite. Often this will have to do with babies being born or marriages being dissolved. These things must happen to test us. Count yourself blessed it's all OK. Many things can cause a separation of twin flames. When these trials come know that they are trials-
TEMPORARY- It's all going to work out OK. The key is to follow your HEART and listen to your spirit. Often we have to do the opposite of what we think in order to reach our goal. This is partly because of the polarity laws involved in twin flames and all of Creation. If you are the twin who is waiting for the other to get free from a trial and get to you here's how to help. Be gentle and patient. If you push them they will run from you because your energy is too strong. Think of them as on a train ride at the amusement park. You are walking and free to go wherever, but they are not. You must hold their hand and walk beside the train with them. You may want to pull them out of the train but this will hurt them. Don't pull just enjoy walking beside until their train stops and they can join you freely. It's the loving way.

*I should add here that if your twin flame feels that following their heart means to leave you behind for a while it's ok. They may have Karma to clear up with another before they can unite with you the right way. The important thing is that they follow their heart and not get caught up in everyone else s opinions. The heart knows the right path for a particular point in time. love them and allow them to do their thing. you cannot lose them. Twin Flames are each other in the whole of their being, eternally connected. They always love you even when the concious mind doesn't understand it. The heart does.  *

* If you are completely separated from your twin and not in contact with them this is the most stressful time. Do not panic or give up hope. God does intend to unite you. It will happen. Imagine how from Heaven's point of view all things are controlled on a track of sorts. All energies of the planets initiate changes at the right times for us as we use our free will within it. Like being in a boat on the river. We can do as we please on the boat but we can't push the river. On the up side we can't stop it's flow either. It will take us to our twin flame. While separated from our twin flame it's important to get guidance from God or our spiritual angels or guides. It's good to get council from those who can channel messages on your situation. This is the right time to increase your connection to the divine. If this is your situation be very proud. This means you will be a special teacher. The only way to gain strength and knowledge is to live it. Use this time to hone your spiritual skills and knowledge. When you do unite with your twin it will be amazing! You will have the power to change the world together. Be strong for your other half and don't give up. They need you to wait for them.    

* You may have met your twin flame and seemed to unite for a time. Maybe even started a friendship or dated only to seem like it split up. One may have felt pushed and the other may have felt they were reaching for something they couldn't get. This is common too. Don't panic. It's about polarity. Your twin flame is the equal opposite of you. Everything between you will be intensified and you will work like magnets. If one has too strong a desire to unite with the other it flips your energy to the opposite and pushes them away in fear. You will mirror each other so if one turns to fear or control (with good intentions and probably not knowing) The other will flip too and you'll oppose each other. maybe even become nemesis for a time. Then it's important to have restraint for the good and love of the other. It's how they need to be loved at that time. Turn to gentle kindness and be willing to let the other go. Not to lose them or give up, but to give them freedom and comfort allowing them to return to you and feel secure. You will get your love!

It will work out it's our destiny! Much love        

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Amy I know your intense pain!  I still experience the pain of mine every day but I know I am evolving through the compassion and that the essence of our love is unbreakable whatever is thrown at the relationship (ie polarised views on life, marriage and lots of kids for starters).  Looking forward to your articles.

Interesting thread...thank you..

I have been told by a few sources that I will not be with my twin flame (or twin ray) in the physical in this incarnation, sadly, and that he mainly resides in a higher dimension.

However some months ago, out of the blue, I felt his presence strongly within me – I felt my heart fill my body and I experienced a heart orgasm - pure bliss and SO powerful. It has only happened one time (that I am aware of) and I feel it was to comfort me and really let me know that we are always connected. Blessings to All

Often!!! Lucky you. 

Have you seen this link: http://www.spiritofmaat.com/archive/apr1/sananda.htm

My view on the twin flame concept is that it never felt right for me . I am a huge believer in soul groups /familys , primary n secondary soulmaTES AND karmic parteners to learn lessons , but i don't feel for myself. I believe in a soul mate relationships not twins flames i wish nothing but love n light n happyness to those who have found thier "twins" :)

I met my twin flame many years ago in 1992 and then lost her for a long. She was taken away from me in memory due to intervention from some human forces i wont mention what service here. The good news is all these years I was feeling her presence in me her love pulsing through me and she was always about so i set off to find out who she was. With her eyes the way they are i had seen her at night at times and mistakenly thought she was a fairy of some kind lol. iam happy to say in September 2010 i completely remembered her and our love has been strong since so strong is this bond i feel iam finally whole again. My search was finally over i can remember her fully and i do see her from time to time our love is strong.

Kreiteus :)

Thank you.  Is it common for twin flames who separate to get back together?  We were together for 3 yrs 3 months only were married 6 months before we were both dragged down by it and couldnt function anymore so had to separate.   We have been separated for 5 and a half months now and I am ready to let everything go but he says he doesnt want to be with me.  I just dont know what to do.  I dont know whether to keep hoping or to start divorce proceedings and move on with my life.  It was the best 2 years of my life but also the worst year of my life.  I am just so confused by all this!  But all these explanations of twin flames make so much sense and I believe in it wholeheartedly.  

Rev. Amy R. Queen said:

Hold on to your heart. Keep the strongest love for him in there and love yourself. If he is your true other half the love in you and for you will vibrate in him and he will realize where he is supposed to be. Sometimes when we are too close to a situation it's hard to see but when we stand back for a while it's clearer what our path is. Also there can be some things inside us which have to be cleared up alone so the other twin doesn't get too effected by it during the process. Twin flames are mirrors of each other so whatever one feels the other one will empathically feel too (very strongly) and often it's unable to be discerned who's feelings are who's even at a great distance and we can hurt each other without understanding what's happening. The mirror effect is the reason we have to learn so  much about loving ourselves so it reflects in them. Do something nice for you. : )
Elizabeth Graham said:
Thank you so much for this.  I am currently separated from my twin flame.  (I went to a psychic and was told that we had a twin flame connection)  Its been 5 months.  I am in a lot of pain and struggling to figure out what my next step was so I googled twin flame separation and came across this and this helped me a great deal.  So thank you very much. I have worked on myself a lot and will continue to do so.  However he was in a very dark place throughout all this.  I just dont know what to do because he says he doesnt want to be with me.  Is this normal when twin flames separate?  We are on the path to a divorce which I DO NOT want but cant help myself and bring it up to try and get him to talk about what he wants even though I know I shouldnt mention the word.  But dont know what to do as I cannot carry on like this.  Any suggestions?

Hi Amy,

Gratitude and love for your deep knowledge! Bless you. I have something I would like "interpreted" if you will.
An amazing channel was out in contact with my twin flame recently, the message he relayed was this, "sorry, but  I am not incarnated..( he then proceeded to show a heart of many colors as a sample of infinite love)...i love you forever and anyways, will be together again soon," 

 

I am not sure how to interpret the 'together again soon." I suppose it means after my earth incarnation contract has been completed. The void for him, never full, always yearning.....

Thanks for you help!

-Kelsey 

Your post is a blessing to me. What u have described is my exact situation. We were together and the relationship was an extreme high and extreme low. Very intense. But when we connected as one it was undescribable. Its was so great it terrified me for not knowing what was happening so he thought it was for another reason. So he left me after 4 years and a 1yr old baby. When I say left it was left like he diappeared. No calls , no contact and when I would occasionally see him it was almost as if he would run away. He told me he had too because being around me made it hard for him to stay away from me and that he had to be away. But I had a dream once and its was so vivid I can remember like it was yesterday but it was like a end in the world or something and everyone was going everywhere looking for their loved ones and it was so chaotic and I didn't feel scared for some reason and I was standing in the street and his car pulled up and parked. He got out and ran to me grabbed my hand and said I've been looking everywhere for you. Then as we were holding hands we started walking together in what felt as the way we were supposed to be going. Ok to me that dream was a confirmation to me that we would reunite again and it was all going to be ok. I have a desire to enjoy anything missing in my life since he left. Its kinda like I'm living life in black and white. Its kinda like a scar that will never heal. So u eventually accept it but it shows physically but it can't be covered up and u can't find anything to make it better. So thank u again I will sleep better tonight with. Feelings of hope
Sounds so similar to my situation.  We were together for 3 years 3 months before we split and have a son together.  It was a very intense relationship.  When it was good it was very good, but when it was bad it was very bad.  I couldnt get him to spend any time with me in the end and he was pushing me away.  I was so confused.  But after finding out that we were twin flames through a psychic and begining to read up on everything I can get my hands on it all starts to make sense because I was probably doing the exact same thing.  But now I to cannot get him to speak to me about anything!  Its very frustrating.  Its like hes scared to talk to me or see me.  So he hides and everything to do with the baby I tend to have to communicate through his Mom. Its crazy!  The only way he'll communicate with me is through text and thats only some of the time.  I think if we didnt have our son he wouldnt communicate with me at all. 

EVE said:
Your post is a blessing to me. What u have described is my exact situation. We were together and the relationship was an extreme high and extreme low. Very intense. But when we connected as one it was undescribable. Its was so great it terrified me for not knowing what was happening so he thought it was for another reason. So he left me after 4 years and a 1yr old baby. When I say left it was left like he diappeared. No calls , no contact and when I would occasionally see him it was almost as if he would run away. He told me he had too because being around me made it hard for him to stay away from me and that he had to be away. But I had a dream once and its was so vivid I can remember like it was yesterday but it was like a end in the world or something and everyone was going everywhere looking for their loved ones and it was so chaotic and I didn't feel scared for some reason and I was standing in the street and his car pulled up and parked. He got out and ran to me grabbed my hand and said I've been looking everywhere for you. Then as we were holding hands we started walking together in what felt as the way we were supposed to be going. Ok to me that dream was a confirmation to me that we would reunite again and it was all going to be ok. I have a desire to enjoy anything missing in my life since he left. Its kinda like I'm living life in black and white. Its kinda like a scar that will never heal. So u eventually accept it but it shows physically but it can't be covered up and u can't find anything to make it better. So thank u again I will sleep better tonight with. Feelings of hope

Much thanks Amy for the post.

 

I feel that my twin flame this feels like a seperation that  has been the hardest.  Since I have no real memories of time together and vaquest recollections of the feeling. We are not on the same world or dimension.  I dream of him when I travel the astral world.  Working things oot.  It is matter of time to reunification.

 

Kari

After not really having any dreams about my twin flame since we separated in January, I have all of a sudden starting having one nearly every night.  I feel upset or jealous when I am having these dreams.  He is either with another girl cooking her meals or pulling away from me on our wedding day.  Is this a good or bad sign?
Why do you need to be romantically linked to your twin flame? 

Elizabeth Graham said:
After not really having any dreams about my twin flame since we separated in January, I have all of a sudden starting having one nearly every night.  I feel upset or jealous when I am having these dreams.  He is either with another girl cooking her meals or pulling away from me on our wedding day.  Is this a good or bad sign?

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