Hello everyone! As many of my friends on here know I've been going through a crash course on twin flame relationships. I've learned very valuable things and have helped a few twin flame couples unite and several others to recognize their other half. We all seem to go through similar steps.

The toughest part of the gradual merger of twin flames is understanding when there needs to be separation for a time. When this happens you may feel you've lost all hope and maybe even think of suicide. I did.When this happens It doesn't seem to make sense, and since the energy between twin flames is so amplified it's difficult to see clearly through all that emotion.

Through careful study and experience I've found a few reasons for why this has to happen sometimes. This may help if it's happening to you. feel free to contact me for council too if this is going on in your life. It's all going to be ok. The reasons are like this......

* It may not be time yet for you to unite even though one or both of you are spiritual enough to recognize each other. You or your twin may be in your last trial to learn how to love and follow your heart over your head. In other words not follow the morals of those around you as opposed to your heart and intuition from God. This is part of the "fruit of the knowledge of good and evil" which caused us to die in the garden of Eden (repeat cycles of reincarnation until we learn and heal the original breach). We were split from our own twin flames in the beginning after that we begin practice at being a couple with soul mates of various kinds. This is in the story of Adam and Lilith and also illustrated in the story of Adam and Eve. They ate the tree of knowledge of good and evil, polarity reigned in thier lives and perspective. Now we are finding connection to the tree of life and reconnecting with our real other half. When they began incarnations, cycles of learning with soul mates and God focused them on learning to do right which is necessary due to living in a Karmic world. In the last bits of learning the knowledge of morals can make us feel manipulated by situations where the choice is the lesser of two evils. Many tests come when twins are about to unite. Often this will have to do with babies being born or marriages being dissolved. These things must happen to test us. Count yourself blessed it's all OK. Many things can cause a separation of twin flames. When these trials come know that they are trials-
TEMPORARY- It's all going to work out OK. The key is to follow your HEART and listen to your spirit. Often we have to do the opposite of what we think in order to reach our goal. This is partly because of the polarity laws involved in twin flames and all of Creation. If you are the twin who is waiting for the other to get free from a trial and get to you here's how to help. Be gentle and patient. If you push them they will run from you because your energy is too strong. Think of them as on a train ride at the amusement park. You are walking and free to go wherever, but they are not. You must hold their hand and walk beside the train with them. You may want to pull them out of the train but this will hurt them. Don't pull just enjoy walking beside until their train stops and they can join you freely. It's the loving way.

*I should add here that if your twin flame feels that following their heart means to leave you behind for a while it's ok. They may have Karma to clear up with another before they can unite with you the right way. The important thing is that they follow their heart and not get caught up in everyone else s opinions. The heart knows the right path for a particular point in time. love them and allow them to do their thing. you cannot lose them. Twin Flames are each other in the whole of their being, eternally connected. They always love you even when the concious mind doesn't understand it. The heart does.  *

* If you are completely separated from your twin and not in contact with them this is the most stressful time. Do not panic or give up hope. God does intend to unite you. It will happen. Imagine how from Heaven's point of view all things are controlled on a track of sorts. All energies of the planets initiate changes at the right times for us as we use our free will within it. Like being in a boat on the river. We can do as we please on the boat but we can't push the river. On the up side we can't stop it's flow either. It will take us to our twin flame. While separated from our twin flame it's important to get guidance from God or our spiritual angels or guides. It's good to get council from those who can channel messages on your situation. This is the right time to increase your connection to the divine. If this is your situation be very proud. This means you will be a special teacher. The only way to gain strength and knowledge is to live it. Use this time to hone your spiritual skills and knowledge. When you do unite with your twin it will be amazing! You will have the power to change the world together. Be strong for your other half and don't give up. They need you to wait for them.    

* You may have met your twin flame and seemed to unite for a time. Maybe even started a friendship or dated only to seem like it split up. One may have felt pushed and the other may have felt they were reaching for something they couldn't get. This is common too. Don't panic. It's about polarity. Your twin flame is the equal opposite of you. Everything between you will be intensified and you will work like magnets. If one has too strong a desire to unite with the other it flips your energy to the opposite and pushes them away in fear. You will mirror each other so if one turns to fear or control (with good intentions and probably not knowing) The other will flip too and you'll oppose each other. maybe even become nemesis for a time. Then it's important to have restraint for the good and love of the other. It's how they need to be loved at that time. Turn to gentle kindness and be willing to let the other go. Not to lose them or give up, but to give them freedom and comfort allowing them to return to you and feel secure. You will get your love!

It will work out it's our destiny! Much love        

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I do not know when reuniting with our true flames but it will happen have faith

Thanks guys :)

I get signs all the time, but when my experience of reality doesn't match I feel like I'm going mad...thanks for all the encouragement, I DO have faith and I am getting stronger.

Looking forward to the next sign - I shall smile and think of you lovely people :)

Hi, I pushed too hard and mine ran and is now engaged to another, we are not talking he thinks I am mad obsessed woman, but he is my tf I have felt this since we were kids, after years we got together, were due to go on holiday, we argued and I ended it, but the pain is torture, I have waited 3 years but will still wait, I know he loves me but has never said it. The pain of separation is so painful but cant rush it, He will return when he is ready. I am learning how painful patience can be. Not sure this is any help? sorry just felt compelled to write :) xx
Alex Daniel said:

just wondered if anyone knows of any universal developments on the TF front recently. My situation seems to be getting worse, but I guess it's hard to say...we've now been separated for 7 months after 3 years together, and it's got to the point where he's shut me out completely - was my birthday the other day and I had tons of messages, but nothing from him.

Any ideas? I'm feeling stuck in this cycle of waiting.

Cheers, Alex X
I also have met my twin soul, and we had a spotty but extremely intense love relationship for ten months. Before meeting him and looking into his eyes, I didn't even know this "twin" concept even existed. Throughout the entire painful and powerful experience, my psychic abilities have exploded, and I just knew to leave him alone. The day I told him I wanted a "real, normal relationship" he packed his bags and left town. He's the runner and is somewhat messed up now, but I love him and believe that we'll be together when the time is right. Personally, I'm hoping for reunion on the 11-11-11.

So many of us are having the same experiences, we are moving through it as a group, and it's good to know there are others out there who share this amazing journey of fast-track awakening.
Dear Amy, how does distinguish between their twin-flame and someone they're simply in love with? Often, feelings of love are so dreamy, romantic & intense that we project unfound importance and relevance on the object of love, perhaps even claiming them as our 'twin-flame' we're simply meant to be with.
This is a question on my mind, Amy. Kindly share your wisdom. =)
How about if you're like me... and you feel too alien to romantic relationships to receive any sort of romance, led alone a twin flame? @_@

Oh boy, life is weird. I will keep this saved though just in case. :)
I'm sorry if this question is too off topic, by the way, but this is something that's been weighing on my mind for months now. :)

Corynder Sarah said:
How about if you're like me... and you feel too alien to romantic relationships to receive any sort of romance, led alone a twin flame? @@

Oh boy, life is weird. I will keep this saved though just in case. :)
Hi, I felt like that before i met my TF but you will know when you meet your TF, no other will make you feel like they do, you will know you have been waiting for them and them only, it will happen for you but, time and patience is the painful bit, have to keep yourself really busy and take your mind off waiting then you will meet. hope it helps hun, they are worth waiting for.
Thank you so much for this.  I am currently separated from my twin flame.  (I went to a psychic and was told that we had a twin flame connection)  Its been 5 months.  I am in a lot of pain and struggling to figure out what my next step was so I googled twin flame separation and came across this and this helped me a great deal.  So thank you very much. I have worked on myself a lot and will continue to do so.  However he was in a very dark place throughout all this.  I just dont know what to do because he says he doesnt want to be with me.  Is this normal when twin flames separate?  We are on the path to a divorce which I DO NOT want but cant help myself and bring it up to try and get him to talk about what he wants even though I know I shouldnt mention the word.  But dont know what to do as I cannot carry on like this.  Any suggestions?

I'm in separation from my twin, and it's extremely difficult to function. Even when we want to be together, circumstances split us up. I've been listening to Mel and Nicole from Canada on YouTube, as well as all their archived radio shows on their website, and it's the only information that's really helping and making sense to me now. At first I found Mel and his alter-ego, Dr. Pop-Up John, extremely annoying (still do), but at least I'm getting useful information and the male perspective on why my TF is running. I understand that his issues are a mirror of my own. So few couples successfully come together, and that's the reality I'm now waking up to. Women, especially, want a relationship, and that's what I need to give up -- the hope of a "normal relationship" with him. I'm starting to believe it's just not going to happen, or, paradoxically, maybe it will happen when I've fixed my "stuff" and give up. Thing is, I'm not perfect, and it sounds like both TFs have to be perfect in order for reunion to happen. After a year of accelerated spiritual growth through this pain, I'm starting to realize this is like squeezing a camel through an eye of a needle.

Hi Amy.  I'm a twin and really enjoyed your articles - it sums things up brilliantly.  Something I would add is that the twin is the absolute gateway to the divine and a portal out of duality.  Firstly because we learn through the twin that our creator is also dualistic and what bonds the creator is love and understanding our opposite (ie empathy!  reaching out!  loving!).  Secondly because the feminine side of the creator acts as the platform for the masculine (not to be confused with male or female but yin/yang or omega/alpha energies) this means that the feminine energy is often the twin that needs to evolve first through the relationship.  This essentially involves not only letting the other twin go but realising that the masculine energy operates differently and hence requires compassion, nurturing and forgiveness.  It is this dynamic that gives birth to our own inner child (ie the origin of maternal love) and enables us to understand the essence of spirit.  In this respect the twins rarely come together without barriers - it's not only so we learn to navigate through social boundaries with our heart, but ultimately so we understand the nature of divine love and how humanity has fallen when the feminine energy became self seeking.  So anyone coming into a twin flame situation - although it is joyous stay patient because it is the stairway to your divine heart.  Not easy but what you came here to know!

Love this too Amy!  The twin enables you to understand how love is a frequency/vibration beyond the mind.  You also love your twin as yourself so no matter what they do to you there is nothing other than the will to understand and forgive.  It is the most amazing feeling but ultimately very painful because you are collapsing years and years of duality.

Rev. Amy R. Queen said:
A twin flame is a very different feeling than the dreamy crush feeling. Often when we meet them we recognize them and feel an instant connection in the deepest part of the soul and spirit but don't know why. It's love at first sight in the real sense not lust at first sight, meaning you will find them incredibly attractive but not just on an outer level, every part of thier being brings deep comforting attraction. Sometimes it's later that the romance fuzzy feelings become clear to the consious mind but they are always there in the subconscious. I often thought of my twin intuitvely when he was hurt or in trouble or just that I liked something in him (before i knew that's why he effected me that way) There's such a natural feeling to the vibration of them that it often escapes the front of the mind as anything other than "supposed to be." When your twin is in the room with you the feeling of thier presence vibrates on the exact frequency as yours creating a comfort and security like no other. Many TF's can feel thier mate around them before seeing them such as if they are walking up behind. Once you recognize your TF no other compares...on a soul level. The thought of being with another is suddenly just friendly companionship or a bit of lust paleing in comparison to the feeling of being in the company of them. You'll find they rarely leave your mind and you'll always want to know that they are safe.

Acyutananda said:
Dear Amy, how does distinguish between their twin-flame and someone they're simply in love with? Often, feelings of love are so dreamy, romantic & intense that we project unfound importance and relevance on the object of love, perhaps even claiming them as our 'twin-flame' we're simply meant to be with.
This is a question on my mind, Amy. Kindly share your wisdom. =)

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