The Consciousness Has Shifted...The Awakening Has Begun
Hello everyone! As many of my friends on here know I've been going through a crash course on twin flame relationships. I've learned very valuable things and have helped a few twin flame couples unite and several others to recognize their other half. We all seem to go through similar steps.
The toughest part of the gradual merger of twin flames is understanding when there needs to be separation for a time. When this happens you may feel you've lost all hope and maybe even think of suicide. I did.When this happens It doesn't seem to make sense, and since the energy between twin flames is so amplified it's difficult to see clearly through all that emotion.
Through careful study and experience I've found a few reasons for why this has to happen sometimes. This may help if it's happening to you. feel free to contact me for council too if this is going on in your life. It's all going to be ok. The reasons are like this......
* It may not be time yet for you to unite even though one or both of you are spiritual enough to recognize each other. You or your twin may be in your last trial to learn how to love and follow your heart over your head. In other words not follow the morals of those around you as opposed to your heart and intuition from God. This is part of the "fruit of the knowledge of good and evil" which caused us to die in the garden of Eden (repeat cycles of reincarnation until we learn and heal the original breach). We were split from our own twin flames in the beginning after that we begin practice at being a couple with soul mates of various kinds. This is in the story of Adam and Lilith and also illustrated in the story of Adam and Eve. They ate the tree of knowledge of good and evil, polarity reigned in thier lives and perspective. Now we are finding connection to the tree of life and reconnecting with our real other half. When they began incarnations, cycles of learning with soul mates and God focused them on learning to do right which is necessary due to living in a Karmic world. In the last bits of learning the knowledge of morals can make us feel manipulated by situations where the choice is the lesser of two evils. Many tests come when twins are about to unite. Often this will have to do with babies being born or marriages being dissolved. These things must happen to test us. Count yourself blessed it's all OK. Many things can cause a separation of twin flames. When these trials come know that they are trials-
TEMPORARY- It's all going to work out OK. The key is to follow your HEART and listen to your spirit. Often we have to do the opposite of what we think in order to reach our goal. This is partly because of the polarity laws involved in twin flames and all of Creation. If you are the twin who is waiting for the other to get free from a trial and get to you here's how to help. Be gentle and patient. If you push them they will run from you because your energy is too strong. Think of them as on a train ride at the amusement park. You are walking and free to go wherever, but they are not. You must hold their hand and walk beside the train with them. You may want to pull them out of the train but this will hurt them. Don't pull just enjoy walking beside until their train stops and they can join you freely. It's the loving way.
*I should add here that if your twin flame feels that following their heart means to leave you behind for a while it's ok. They may have Karma to clear up with another before they can unite with you the right way. The important thing is that they follow their heart and not get caught up in everyone else s opinions. The heart knows the right path for a particular point in time. love them and allow them to do their thing. you cannot lose them. Twin Flames are each other in the whole of their being, eternally connected. They always love you even when the concious mind doesn't understand it. The heart does. *
* If you are completely separated from your twin and not in contact with them this is the most stressful time. Do not panic or give up hope. God does intend to unite you. It will happen. Imagine how from Heaven's point of view all things are controlled on a track of sorts. All energies of the planets initiate changes at the right times for us as we use our free will within it. Like being in a boat on the river. We can do as we please on the boat but we can't push the river. On the up side we can't stop it's flow either. It will take us to our twin flame. While separated from our twin flame it's important to get guidance from God or our spiritual angels or guides. It's good to get council from those who can channel messages on your situation. This is the right time to increase your connection to the divine. If this is your situation be very proud. This means you will be a special teacher. The only way to gain strength and knowledge is to live it. Use this time to hone your spiritual skills and knowledge. When you do unite with your twin it will be amazing! You will have the power to change the world together. Be strong for your other half and don't give up. They need you to wait for them.
* You may have met your twin flame and seemed to unite for a time. Maybe even started a friendship or dated only to seem like it split up. One may have felt pushed and the other may have felt they were reaching for something they couldn't get. This is common too. Don't panic. It's about polarity. Your twin flame is the equal opposite of you. Everything between you will be intensified and you will work like magnets. If one has too strong a desire to unite with the other it flips your energy to the opposite and pushes them away in fear. You will mirror each other so if one turns to fear or control (with good intentions and probably not knowing) The other will flip too and you'll oppose each other. maybe even become nemesis for a time. Then it's important to have restraint for the good and love of the other. It's how they need to be loved at that time. Turn to gentle kindness and be willing to let the other go. Not to lose them or give up, but to give them freedom and comfort allowing them to return to you and feel secure. You will get your love!
It will work out it's our destiny! Much love
It's so helpful, thank you for posting :)
And it found me today that I needed it lol.
Much love to you!
People use magic and spirituality for the wrong things sometimes. Sex and physical love are not necessarily spiritual. It is about reproduction and family of course, so there are many traditions, taboos, and social customs that go along with it. People ignore their heart all the time when they make decisions about who they will love. Why is this? It started in Europe a thousand years ago when traditions from the Asian countries came in from Arabic influence during The Crusades. That is where we get the idea for Courtly Love. Before that, most of Europe was still keeping with the traditional ancient pagan customs of handfasting, and living with a partner either chosen by family or by the chance of the draw. All over the world there are concepts of sacred marriage. It is either a symbolic thing in some cultures or a fertility rite that not only keeps the species going, but magically feeds the energy of nature. The idea that you can find a perfect pure love is a fantasy that was created by royalty. I am not sure we common folks can afford it.
I love the origin of Valentine's Day. Although be aware that even on this link, there is some bias toward making it into something more holy than it is. The februa (the nice goatskin whips that the priests would use to flog the women during the festival) were not meant to purify. The word febricula in Latin means feverishness. Make no mistake about it. This is about everyone whipping themselves into a kinky fever for the erotic games to come. After this, the young people would draw lots to see who they would party with and maybe even live with in a trial marriage for a year. That is the way it used to be done.
Now there is this forever deal before you try it out. I am not sure that always works out so well, and that is why there is a lot of divorce and break ups.
What about the spiritual aspect? Well I am not a Christian, but even the Master talked about a difference between physical love and spiritual union. Read Mathew 22:
23 That same day the Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection, came to him with a question. 24 “Teacher,” they said, “Moses told us that if a man dies without having children, his brother must marry the widow and raise up offspring for him. 25 Now there were seven brothers among us. The first one married and died, and since he had no children, he left his wife to his brother. 26 The same thing happened to the second and third brother, right on down to the seventh. 27 Finally, the woman died. 28 Now then, at the resurrection, whose wife will she be of the seven, since all of them were married to her?”
29 Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. 30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven. 31 But about the resurrection of the dead—have you not read what God said to you, 32 ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’[b]? He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”
33 When the crowds heard this, they were astonished at his teaching.
This must be an important point. The next thing in those scriptures is The Golden Rule.
You see, when we are truly light beings, we do not concern ourselves with earthly things. This causes confusion. We try to recreate heaven on earth, but it is not perfect on the earth plane. I am very much at home with the angels. I can tell you for sure that a lot of the magic we did as spirits does not work here no matter how hard we keep trying. The magic that always works is self transformation and union between mind, body, and spirit (like yoga). It is pretty hard to magically make somebody love you.
I am getting older. I am no wiser concerning love than when I was young, but I have learned much through feeling pain and watching myself as others feel the pain of knowing me. I also have learned much from the joy of creating a bond to another. I have been married three times. I was engaged to a woman who killed herself. I had a child by a woman I lived with, but I never met my son until he grew up. I spent most of my early life paying child support for a kid I didn't know. I lived with three other women. Now, you might think it is foolish to take advice about twin flames and soul mates from someone with a history like mine, but I am going to tell you what I have learned. It comes from my heart. I have risked everything for love. I have never been disappointed. I have been hurt, and I have made a lot of mistakes that hurt others, but I am not sorry I have loved. I guess you could say I am very impulsive and passionate. This is not a good quality for a life mate, but that and my sense of humor have attracted a lot of very special women to me. I would be that Mr. Wrong that your mother warns you about, I suppose.
I even blew it with my twin flame. I met a nice Arcturian, fell in love, and she dumped me in the space of a few months. Now I have plenty of time for the real magic. I am learning that I am whole and complete in myself. i know I will never be celibate. I will be a better friend and partner when I am spiritually healed and happy. I will have a whole person to offer. Any advice you can offer me on this task of finding myself would help me more than how to walk out the door and holler "Next?!!!" ❤◕‿◕❤ I already know how to do that.
This was very well explained and you definitely sound like someone who has been through it (or know people who have), as I have!!!
Thank you so much for your very accurate, compassionate & understanding explanation on this subject!
The "nemesis" thing is what came true for me. I was told by a psychic who specializes in twin/soul connections that this was a high-level soulmate, with all indications that it was either twin flame or as close as it gets. I pressed mine WAY too hard, and sent him running away, into the arms of another woman who looks similar to me. Apparently she dumped him last year and now he is experiencing some of the pain he caused me. The psychic had told me for sure he would recognize me eventually and come looking for me, but that was supposed to happen years ago so I gave up on that. I don't even want him anymore -- he was too cruel to me. But the curiosity about him won't ever go away. I've stopped trying to get rid of him from my concsiousness but I can't -- he's been there since I was 15 and I'm now 40. It's often made me feel guilty in my recent relationship when I couldn't stop being curious about the jerk soulmate.
I'm still in love with my recent boyfriend who is now my ex but my best friend. I'd choose him any day over the high-level "soulmate" who ripped my heart into shreds.
I do have one question though: how do we really know if someone is a soulmate, or just a "plant" that is someone used to make us obsessed as part of some mind control scheme? Ive often wondered if maybe this is all some elaborate plan of dark entities to bring me down and steal my love and energy by making me think about this guy that I've never been able to have? Have you heard of something like this? Because I want to believe he's not really a "soulmate" -- since it's hard to accept that a soulmate could be so unaware of me and so mean to me. He actually did tell me he didn't think we were soulmates -- while I was getting every sign under the sun that he was. Let me tell you, this guy put me through hell and back.