Hello everyone! As many of my friends on here know I've been going through a crash course on twin flame relationships. I've learned very valuable things and have helped a few twin flame couples unite and several others to recognize their other half. We all seem to go through similar steps.

The toughest part of the gradual merger of twin flames is understanding when there needs to be separation for a time. When this happens you may feel you've lost all hope and maybe even think of suicide. I did.When this happens It doesn't seem to make sense, and since the energy between twin flames is so amplified it's difficult to see clearly through all that emotion.

Through careful study and experience I've found a few reasons for why this has to happen sometimes. This may help if it's happening to you. feel free to contact me for council too if this is going on in your life. It's all going to be ok. The reasons are like this......

* It may not be time yet for you to unite even though one or both of you are spiritual enough to recognize each other. You or your twin may be in your last trial to learn how to love and follow your heart over your head. In other words not follow the morals of those around you as opposed to your heart and intuition from God. This is part of the "fruit of the knowledge of good and evil" which caused us to die in the garden of Eden (repeat cycles of reincarnation until we learn and heal the original breach). We were split from our own twin flames in the beginning after that we begin practice at being a couple with soul mates of various kinds. This is in the story of Adam and Lilith and also illustrated in the story of Adam and Eve. They ate the tree of knowledge of good and evil, polarity reigned in thier lives and perspective. Now we are finding connection to the tree of life and reconnecting with our real other half. When they began incarnations, cycles of learning with soul mates and God focused them on learning to do right which is necessary due to living in a Karmic world. In the last bits of learning the knowledge of morals can make us feel manipulated by situations where the choice is the lesser of two evils. Many tests come when twins are about to unite. Often this will have to do with babies being born or marriages being dissolved. These things must happen to test us. Count yourself blessed it's all OK. Many things can cause a separation of twin flames. When these trials come know that they are trials-
TEMPORARY- It's all going to work out OK. The key is to follow your HEART and listen to your spirit. Often we have to do the opposite of what we think in order to reach our goal. This is partly because of the polarity laws involved in twin flames and all of Creation. If you are the twin who is waiting for the other to get free from a trial and get to you here's how to help. Be gentle and patient. If you push them they will run from you because your energy is too strong. Think of them as on a train ride at the amusement park. You are walking and free to go wherever, but they are not. You must hold their hand and walk beside the train with them. You may want to pull them out of the train but this will hurt them. Don't pull just enjoy walking beside until their train stops and they can join you freely. It's the loving way.

*I should add here that if your twin flame feels that following their heart means to leave you behind for a while it's ok. They may have Karma to clear up with another before they can unite with you the right way. The important thing is that they follow their heart and not get caught up in everyone else s opinions. The heart knows the right path for a particular point in time. love them and allow them to do their thing. you cannot lose them. Twin Flames are each other in the whole of their being, eternally connected. They always love you even when the concious mind doesn't understand it. The heart does.  *

* If you are completely separated from your twin and not in contact with them this is the most stressful time. Do not panic or give up hope. God does intend to unite you. It will happen. Imagine how from Heaven's point of view all things are controlled on a track of sorts. All energies of the planets initiate changes at the right times for us as we use our free will within it. Like being in a boat on the river. We can do as we please on the boat but we can't push the river. On the up side we can't stop it's flow either. It will take us to our twin flame. While separated from our twin flame it's important to get guidance from God or our spiritual angels or guides. It's good to get council from those who can channel messages on your situation. This is the right time to increase your connection to the divine. If this is your situation be very proud. This means you will be a special teacher. The only way to gain strength and knowledge is to live it. Use this time to hone your spiritual skills and knowledge. When you do unite with your twin it will be amazing! You will have the power to change the world together. Be strong for your other half and don't give up. They need you to wait for them.    

* You may have met your twin flame and seemed to unite for a time. Maybe even started a friendship or dated only to seem like it split up. One may have felt pushed and the other may have felt they were reaching for something they couldn't get. This is common too. Don't panic. It's about polarity. Your twin flame is the equal opposite of you. Everything between you will be intensified and you will work like magnets. If one has too strong a desire to unite with the other it flips your energy to the opposite and pushes them away in fear. You will mirror each other so if one turns to fear or control (with good intentions and probably not knowing) The other will flip too and you'll oppose each other. maybe even become nemesis for a time. Then it's important to have restraint for the good and love of the other. It's how they need to be loved at that time. Turn to gentle kindness and be willing to let the other go. Not to lose them or give up, but to give them freedom and comfort allowing them to return to you and feel secure. You will get your love!

It will work out it's our destiny! Much love        

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thank you rev amy for sharing this-

I suspect this is what my love and I have been going through for some time- we have wondered if we are twin flames (as not wanting to be pretentious and claim it without confirmation) but we have gone through several times some of the things you described above. Including 3 separations that did not last for more than a few months.

we have been through the hardest parts of our lives together and I know I wouldn't have made it through without his inspiration and support.

reading about the separations and the polar flips that you described helped me to understand what has happened to us... when I have felt prior that our strong oppositions meant we should go our own ways-- we are truly opposites yet so the same that it causes us to but heads but only intensifies our love for each other.

do you do twin flame readings?
You post this at 11.11 pm... ;)... I sent you a friend request, I would like you to accept it and make you a question in private... if it doesn´t bother you..
Love & Light
great article! this makes sense to me. i have some questions about twin flames though, namely, how does one recognize this? is that feeling of 'ya totally soul mate / twin flame' an accurate judge or can ego delude one into falseness? like what is the difference between the feeling of loving someone and the feeling of a twin flame ?
i guess i'm truly asking, how to know if you aren't actually just obsessed over someone?

thanks for your words, they are good ones <3
I agree with this completely my twin flame and I r not to meet yet even tho we both long for it to happen . We both know wen we finnally become one our Light &Love will exceed anything that the human kind has ever seen
we have many preperations before we can be one ..but for now its ok to talk to each other over the phone and internet >
Love & Light LD
Thank you, this message fills me with much hope.
Thanks for your lovely and insightful words, Amy! As someone who just came into direct contact with her twin flame almost two months ago, I am doing a lot of research to help me understand what's going on, and how I can adjust to the verrry intense energies without either one of us short-circuiting. It does take time, patience, love, and communication, and like peeling back the layers of an onion, there are a number of issues, layers, and walls to deal with, clear, and release.
I have a question to. What if your twin flame is gay and you are straight? Is this possible?

It's so helpful, thank you for posting :)

And it found me today that I needed it lol.

Much love to you!

I love you :D
This is exactly what I have been going though with him :D:D:D
Thank you fom the bottom of my heart for posting this
Loving blessings and Light to you

Liberty / Cyian xxx

This was very well explained and you definitely sound like someone who has been through it (or know people who have), as I have!!!


Thank you so much for your very accurate, compassionate & understanding explanation on this subject!


The "nemesis" thing is what came true for me. I was told by a psychic who specializes in twin/soul connections that this was a high-level soulmate, with all indications that it was either twin flame or as close as it gets. I pressed mine WAY too hard, and sent him running away, into the arms of another woman who looks similar to me. Apparently she dumped him last year and now he is experiencing some of the pain he caused me. The psychic had told me for sure he would recognize me eventually and come looking for me, but that was supposed to happen years ago so I gave up on that. I don't even want him anymore -- he was too cruel to me. But the curiosity about him won't ever go away. I've stopped trying to get rid of him from my concsiousness but I can't -- he's been there since I was 15 and I'm now 40. It's often made me feel guilty in my recent relationship when I couldn't stop being curious about the jerk soulmate.


I'm still in love with my recent boyfriend who is now my ex but my best friend. I'd choose him any day over the high-level "soulmate" who ripped my heart into shreds.


I do have one question though: how do we really know if someone is a soulmate, or just a "plant" that is someone used to make us obsessed as part of some mind control scheme? Ive often wondered if maybe this is all some elaborate plan of dark entities to bring me down and steal my love and energy by making me think about this guy that I've never been able to have? Have you heard of something like this? Because I want to believe he's not really a "soulmate" -- since it's hard to accept that a soulmate could be so unaware of me and so mean to me. He actually did tell me he didn't think we were soulmates -- while I was getting every sign under the sun that he was. Let me tell you, this guy put me through hell and back.

My twin-flame is not on this dimensional plane - and I am married to a soul mate at this time. I find it really hard sometimes, but I know I have to be here and go through a cycle with my soul mate. I am grateful however, that we do have some contact although it's not everything we would like it to be in my life time.


just wondered if anyone knows of any universal developments on the TF front recently. My situation seems to be getting worse, but I guess it's hard to say...we've now been separated for 7 months after 3 years together, and it's got to the point where he's shut me out completely - was my birthday the other day and I had tons of messages, but nothing from him.

Any ideas? I'm feeling stuck in this cycle of waiting.

Cheers, Alex X

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