Ok. I have to ask this question. I have been reading up a lot about soul mates and more recently, twin flames. (can you tell that I read a lot? ) :)

Anyway. My question is this......

From what I have read, both soul mates/twin flames have an instant recognition at the same time. Is this correct?

the reason I am asking this is that I met this guy about a month ago, (he is the one who triggered my awakening), but we have not met up since then. We chat on line, and send messages, but nothing personal, all to do with aspects of my awakening etc. Ive tried very hard to stop thinking about this guy, and it took me until two nights ago to properly sever the soul tie I inadvertantly must have created with him, as it seems that my feelings are not reciprocated. He keeps on talking about meeting up again.....but so far nothing. Its confusing the sh#t out of me. Scuse the language. Deep down I have this feeling that he is my soul mate/ twin flame, no matter how hard I try to deny it, but wouldnt the feeling have been reciprocated?? Any answers would be greatly appreciated.

Also, is there a difference between twin flames and soul mates?

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Hya Cheryl,

ah yes, love. Confusing all the time XD

Anyway, as far as I understand the overall  definitions of soul mates and twinflames, there are a few crucial differences. I'll try to explain it from my understanding. :)

Soul mates

When your being was created, you were in a soul group. These are all individuals that share a similar soul template with you. If you would connect whith such a person, you would recognize the similarities between each other.


Twin flames

A twine flame is similar to a soulmate, only the the relationship is much intenser and you have only one Twin Flame. The story goes that when you were created, your being/soul was torn in two expressions. One being the feminine and the other the masculine. You are one of them and your twinflame the other.

The beauty of the Twin Flame relationship is that your twin is your perfect mirror. A deep recognissition will take place upon  meeting. A recoginissition so deep that all emotional inbalances will be multiplied by a thousand fold, for the sake of a analogy. :P I, for myself, are still waiting for this meeting and I am preparing.

People say that the meeting will only take place when you both are ready for it. Thus, having reached a certain height in spiritial growth.

 

This is the basic knowledge around twinflames and soulmates. You have one twinflames and multiple soulmates.

 

As for the your relationship, I am not sure whenever this is just a random person, a soulmate or a twinflame, but judging from the knowledge I have about your state of spiritual growth and the information provided above, I would say that it is a soulmate. Yet, I am not shure and that is for you to decide. :) Good luck!

Regards,

 

Ciffian Renavai

Thanks for explaining the differences between soul mates and twin flames to me Ciffian. What you have said makes a great deal of sense. :)

As to whether this guy is my soul mate or was sent to me purely for the purpose of triggering my awakening.......only time will tell.

Thankyou my friend. Much love and light to you.

Cheryl.

Ciffian Renavai said:

Hya Cheryl,

ah yes, love. Confusing all the time XD

Anyway, as far as I understand the overall  definitions of soul mates and twinflames, there are a few crucial differences. I'll try to explain it from my understanding. :)

Soul mates

When your being was created, you were in a soul group. These are all individuals that share a similar soul template with you. If you would connect whith such a person, you would recognize the similarities between each other.


Twin flames

A twine flame is similar to a soulmate, only the the relationship is much intenser and you have only one Twin Flame. The story goes that when you were created, your being/soul was torn in two expressions. One being the feminine and the other the masculine. You are one of them and your twinflame the other.

The beauty of the Twin Flame relationship is that your twin is your perfect mirror. A deep recognissition will take place upon  meeting. A recoginissition so deep that all emotional inbalances will be multiplied by a thousand fold, for the sake of a analogy. :P I, for myself, are still waiting for this meeting and I am preparing.

People say that the meeting will only take place when you both are ready for it. Thus, having reached a certain height in spiritial growth.

 

This is the basic knowledge around twinflames and soulmates. You have one twinflames and multiple soulmates.

 

As for the your relationship, I am not sure whenever this is just a random person, a soulmate or a twinflame, but judging from the knowledge I have about your state of spiritual growth and the information provided above, I would say that it is a soulmate. Yet, I am not shure and that is for you to decide. :) Good luck!

Regards,

 

Ciffian Renavai


Indeed. Whatever the reason, you are here and thats what counts :)


Cheryl said:

Thanks for explaining the differences between soul mates and twin flames to me Ciffian. What you have said makes a great deal of sense. :)

As to whether this guy is my soul mate or was sent to me purely for the purpose of triggering my awakening.......only time will tell.

Thankyou my friend. Much love and light to you.

Cheryl.

It is confusing.  I met a man, whom I thought was my flame/soulmate/whathaveyou... He triggered in me innate abilities I never knew I had..  I had my "awakening" and I developed energy-related abilities..  In the process, it also drove me mad, how he treated me.  The theory that twin flames are the masculine/feminine part of a whole.. Makes sense to me.  He would be my masculine counterpart, however since he does not contain the feminine, it really created problems.  Extremely different views, and the constant sexual energy he viewed as me being anxious, nervous... when I couldn't help whatever vibes I was sending him.  And his resentment of this perceived anxiety would then cause me ACTUAL anxiety because of the resentment toward me.... 

It physically pains me thinking of what happened between us.. Time will tell if redemption will happen.  However, it is my own duty to become a stronger soul, for my and his own good.  I know I met him for a reason, and I thank the Source I did, for I would have never discovered my true being.  But it still hurts..   

I guess I can only keep on keeping on until my actual soulmate comes around.  Until then, I have only myself.. And im a gemini, so I have my own counterpart inside me to conquer.  

Life.. such a journey eh? (; 

This same thing happened to me as well- It took me four years to release him (as far as I know for now). From what I read, both souls will "know" deep down inside but may not accept it fro this incarnation. I felt the same way you do and he treated me in the same manner. We are both married now to other people (he is unhappy -i can feel it and it breaks my heart because all i ever wanted was his happiness). Anywho- I learned that I will always be connected ot my Twin Flame and love him unconditionally from a distance (no longer a romantic love, just pure unconditional). This article really helped me a lot. I hope it helps you too :)            http://spiritlibrary.com/uriel-heals/twin-flame-healing-and-connection

Thanks Electra. I found that article interesting. This part rang true:
'With your twin flame your soul desire may be to create healing and to reconnect but their choice may be different.'  As I received through journalling that his role was to trigger my awakening and my role was to heal him. And he has admitted that he has his own fears that he is working through, so maybe they are related to that? Life certainly wasnt meant to be easy, was it? lol. :)
Electra said:

This same thing happened to me as well- It took me four years to release him (as far as I know for now). From what I read, both souls will "know" deep down inside but may not accept it fro this incarnation. I felt the same way you do and he treated me in the same manner. We are both married now to other people (he is unhappy -i can feel it and it breaks my heart because all i ever wanted was his happiness). Anywho- I learned that I will always be connected ot my Twin Flame and love him unconditionally from a distance (no longer a romantic love, just pure unconditional). This article really helped me a lot. I hope it helps you too :)            http://spiritlibrary.com/uriel-heals/twin-flame-healing-and-connection

That is actually what is holding me back at the moment........I keep getting these thoughts running through my head......like, wait for him to make the first move/ contact, dont chase him, wait for him to come to you, etc, etc, which even sound insane as I am typing them. And another thing I have realised, is that I have deliberately kept the conversations to a non personal level myself, as I am scared that if I reveal how I feel I will be rejected. (fear of rejection is a personal issue of mine that I have been attempting to work through for years....) Hmmm. Maybe its time I sent him a text. What do I have to lose???? :)

Rachel said:

This might be what is called a heart centre awakening catalyst experience. Where the heart chakra is triggered to burst open. Which could explain your awakening being coupled with your strong feelings for this guy. Or this could be a soul mate or your twin flame. Time will tell! If he keeps talking about meeting up then you should. Take the initiative. He might be shy and wanting just as many signs and reassurance that the feelings are mutual as you do. Try and remove the beliefs of the male and female roles and expectations of the conventional romantic relationship and follow your heart not your head!

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Another amazing article! Thankyou very much Katrin. :) It has explained things for me even further. Even more is making sense now. Thankyou. :)

You are most welcome Cheryl - thank you for your gratitude :) Blessings

Hi Rachel. Ive got to share this....... what you said about taking the initiative and removing the female/male beliefs played on my mind a lot.......so, I sent him a text from the heart, explaining how I felt, my frustrations, my sadness etc and sent it with no expectations. And guess what? He rang me back. I missed the call but he left a voice message thanking me for my message, apologising for not responding to me as he needs to find a new place to live, and admitting that he has been in a very confused state lately, but he has promised me that we will catch up soon. So, thankyou Rachel. I would not have sent that message otherwise. This may have been the catalyst that was needed. Much love and light to you. Cheryl. :)

Rachel said:

This might be what is called a heart centre awakening catalyst experience. Where the heart chakra is triggered to burst open. Which could explain your awakening being coupled with your strong feelings for this guy. Or this could be a soul mate or your twin flame. Time will tell! If he keeps talking about meeting up then you should. Take the initiative. He might be shy and wanting just as many signs and reassurance that the feelings are mutual as you do. Try and remove the beliefs of the male and female roles and expectations of the conventional romantic relationship and follow your heart not your head!

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If you ever want to chat about it, Cheryl, I'm here for you! I've dealt with the long distance connection for four years with mine and I totally get what you're going through! Love and blessings to you :)

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