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Reuniting Humanity With Their Divinity...It's Time
Seeking advice or perspective on coping with 'Difficult Humans'?
I don't post often,mostly read and learn...
I'm a firm believer in 'love thy enemy', but we all have limits. It feels lately that there is so much negativity and selfishness, and no matter how many positive vibes I put out there, they're not coming back around. Almost all of the old friends I had are gone. My family is almost all gone too. I'm 25 and feel like the end is soon. Things would be easier if I had steady support/stable relationship, which I'm capable and willing for, but it seems like those things are no longer options in today's society.. so much selfishness
All advice and coping techniques welcome
thanks :)
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Permalink Reply by Sierra on -
Im overcoming this challenge also, what we must do is FOCUS. and by that i mean pay attention to the good things in your life and the positive aspects of people, in order for the "good" to grow and show itself more. when we complain about things and try to figure these negative things out the universe sends us more negativity to figure out and complain about, and this cycle will go on and on in your life until you figure it out and let it go. to let it go is to no longer give in to it or give it you energy just say i see you i understand you i have learned from you and now i don't need you, make the choice that no matter what comes you way "negative" or "positive" you will only give in to the positive aspect of you world. One day you will look at your world and it will be beautiful, you will see only positivity because you made a choice to let go and understand. Hope i helped :) love&light
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Permalink Reply by IsidoresEyes on -
I had this problem to.... Unawakened people unconciously understand the light that surrounds you and whether they got scared, or jealous ... Understand that their manners have nothing to do with you, so if it is something outside yourself it should not affect you... A warrior is always lonesome... What you have to do is strenghten your mind and defend your energy... Dont forget that most of people nowadays do not depend on their own energy but they " steal" from others through negative thoughts... This is why if you put a positive human being into a negative group, he will soon start to feel uncomfortable.. The same is with the opposite. If a specific human behaviour can affect your mood then probably you should strenghten your mind and your aura... Everytime i feel uncomfortable into crowds i use defending teqnniques..( shielding and mind play). It is all a matter of energy after all. Ignore them but when you feel someone is doing something on your energy on purpose then do not hesitate to fight back. All have to learn lessons... I hope this helps a bit... Focus on yourself and ignore those who dont have any connection with themselves and their brains... Have a nice day!
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AdminPermalink Reply by Tej on -
When the pot is brimming...it tends to overflow..same with the human emotions. I can understand it has been very stressful to you being positive...however, you have to consciously understand the state of mind and soul. Understand that the soul is beyond the love, hate, jealousy..et al..concepts...try to see things through your soul...there is a very old and ancient Hindu saying..when the Elephant walks..lot of dogs bark...but they will never be able to come near it( frankly..I love animals more than anything-and no disrespect to any animal is intended in this reply)...so your soul is the elephant...and the rest you can understand...try to comprehend all the things that have happened in your life..try to relish the good moments you spent with the same people who are now showing a different emotions...and frankly..it will look silly and would make you laugh..as you would have understood the nature of human emotions...always remember..who you are and what you are destined to do..no matter what...and I would end this reply with a small and interesting story..hope you would like it and its essence....
A man was exploring caves by the seashore. In one of the caves he found a canvas bagwith a bunch of hardened clay balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake.
They didn't look like much, but they intrigued the man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could.
He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock. Inside was a beautiful, precious stone!
Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure. He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left. Then it struck him.
He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves. Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!
Similarly It's like that with people as well. We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel It doesn't look like much from the outside. It isn't always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it.
We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.
There is a hidden treasure in each one of us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.
Let the light be your guide always. Namaste.
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Permalink Reply by ShiVa on -
Repeat this daily
"My intent is to draw my aura into the perfect distance from my physical body in all directions, and above and below, where I do not trigger other people's energies, and other people's energies do not trigger me - right now and so it is!"
This will ensure that others energies don't interact with yours. Affirming the above has helped me a great deal.
The other thing to note is the size of your third eye. Visualise your third eye reducing to the size of your normal eye. If it opens to much, you will become like a sponge for all the negativity around you.
Hope that helps!
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Permalink Reply by adam woods on -
unawakened people unconciously understand the light that surrounds you and whether they got scared, or jealous ... Understand that their manners have nothing to do with you, so if it is something outside yourself it should not affect you... A warrior is always lonesome
That's a good way to word it for me. What I want are genuine connections with people, meaning something. There are so many 'unawakened'(which i still feel uncomfortable using, it makes me think I sound 'holier than thou') it makes me question if almost total solitude is my fate?
It's disheartening to want something so simple and feel as if its my direct fault that it isn't so. Logically, if I'm a good person that's what should be attracting to me, since that is absent, where does the responsibility go to?
thanks for the replies, they were genuinely encouraging :)
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Permalink Reply by Amanda on -
Sierra said:Im overcoming this challenge also, what we must do is FOCUS. and by that i mean pay attention to the good things in your life and the positive aspects of people, in order for the "good" to grow and show itself more. when we complain about things and try to figure these negative things out the universe sends us more negativity to figure out and complain about, and this cycle will go on and on in your life until you figure it out and let it go. to let it go is to no longer give in to it or give it you energy just say i see you i understand you i have learned from you and now i don't need you, make the choice that no matter what comes you way "negative" or "positive" you will only give in to the positive aspect of you world. One day you will look at your world and it will be beautiful, you will see only positivity because you made a choice to let go and understand. Hope i helped :) love&light
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Permalink Reply by Amanda on
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find people that are like minded! We are out there :) I have had the same problems, family and friends have been lost but in the end they really are not your friends if they cant accept you for who you are. when the time comes for the rest of the world to understand they will.
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