Hi all,

I have noticed a lot of things going on in chat that as per our guidelines should not be happening and I wanted to make it clear to members that its NOT alright, I have noticed some members, talking about other members in chat, and even though they don't say names most times, it still is no OK to discuss issues you have with other members in public chat, I don't really give a hoot if the person is Satan himself, if there are issues with someone then please be a mature adult and bring it up with the person or with an admin, otherwise, keep it to yourself, because your doing nothing but causing drama and taking away from conversation that could be going on instead, and the guidelines are right on the top of the site, so saying that you were not aware of them is a lame excuse, sorry but that's the truth, our guidelines specifically state:

  • Please do NOT engage in public drama of any kind. If you have issues please read below:
  • The first and most important rule is Respect...arguing of any kind will not be tolerated in public with anyone that includes admins, mods and members. This includes talking about other members to other fellow members. All issues are to be taken to private messaging or private chat and handled in a mature, respectful manner...you may not harass, threaten, discriminate any one on the site...any disruptive behavior is not tolerated...debate is always welcomed so long as you are being mature and respectful. If you have issues with a member or an administrator please contact an admin in private. Do not post about it in a blog, forum post, group etc, this is very disruptive to the flow if discussion and growth, you don't have to agree with what everyone says, that's impossible, but public drama such as talking openly about other members is not OK. Please respect others, do not push your beliefs/views on anyone it doesn't matter if you believe in flying monkeys, and another person believes in fairy cows, what others choose to believe is their business and what you choose to believe is yours, debates are fine as long as their is mutual respect.
  • We expect all members to act with dignity, honor and integrity...we must all remember that we are all equal and everyone deserves to be treated as so...God like status on this site is strictly forbidden, we are here to protect, guide, teach and learn...we all have something to teach and we all have something to learn.
  • Remember at all times that Starseeds.Net is not just a support network, it is also a home, a haven and a sacred space...a home away from home where we can all share and discuss ideas, memories, passions, hardships, joys etc comfortably....everyone at Starseeds.Net should comfortably be able to post whatever they wish without having to post a disclaimer each time...you are welcome to share your beliefs or lack thereof and we expect you to allow the same from others....you are strictly forbidden from trying to convert anyone to your religion or belief system....Starseeds.Net is a sacred space of common ground...it is your home as well as ours respect each other.

I hate to have to make a post about this but, it really is middle school behavior to do that, I would think that all of us would get that, were not little kids anymore, and we should know how to carry ourselves, gossip, drama, and saying someone is a serial killer is not cool in public chat, if you want to gossip about people till the sun turns blue, then, by all means do so, somewhere else. If you cant handle yourself like an adult then this may not be the place for you, our site is a community, NOT a social network despite it's format, the difference being, in a social network, people are there just to socialize, they really don't care about anything but having a good time and mingling, a community, however is based on mutual respect, growth, sharing and caring, of course it is acceptable to gossip at a social network which is like myspace, however in a community, it is not tolerated because we are all family, and we have all come here for - Come Unity (community) we come to unite our spirits and our hearts and explore our interest, passions and seek understanding, NOT critics and judgment, for that we can go to church :) 

If a member is found doing this again, they will be deleted, this is fair warning.

Tags: ISN, Starseed Community, Starseed Network, Starseeds.Net, Starseeds.Net Banned

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I LOOOOVE THIS....my fave part was the church thing ;)

LOVE YA

lol, Thanks Sailor :) ♥ Love ya to girl
:) I also honor mutual respect :)
Wanted to point out that this is not about one person, there have been several members doing it. so for members out there please don't feel were targeting you, were simply discussing something as a community that needs to be addressed. ♥
The LAST place I would expect any type of immature behavior is on this website. What a rude awakening... Oh how I pity humanity :(

And we have darkworkers on this site because ...

Thank you Julia :)

Julia ortiz said:
VERY WELL SAID!!! Julia

OH poor terrible weak humans... what is this drivel?????

I have to address the notion in the replies that other Star Nations our better than Earth Humans.

Earth Humans contain genetic material from all over the universe, beings from all the other planets in our little universe within the multiverse come here to incarnate because this Human/Living Library body is the only one that can do it!  How incredable is that???? The human body can take a soul from Draco, Sirius, Orion etc. That is why there are so many races here because this has never happened anywhere ever. That makes us genetic royality....we do not need pity we need light integration devoted in love and service to our Earth Mother and all of our relations.

self hate it is destructive.

Small minded people talk about people, hurtful gossip is a form of energetic vampirism, usually people are unconscious that they are using that type of energy pattern. Mostly has to do with the little surge one feels inside when they feel superior. It however doesn't sustain as it is generated from without so the person then has to create another situation to vampire more energy.

Expanded minded individuals, those living from the heart, discuss ideas, common interst and possibilities.

I for one am grateful to have an online community where I do not have endure malicious gossip and lower conversations. I say big ups for keeping this community kind and respectful!!!!!

 

I'm with Ysha on this. When you do it in public, it spreads that vibration to everyone who is there. This place is here to get away  from that.
Yes ma'ma... Well said, and i agree... 1,000 percent... It should not be here. This is a place of love and light. Period.
@ Sabrina... You basically just said and explained it all. There isnt anything else to say. As always, right on, Sister, Right on...
@ lord of lords...
I am in no way offended by your comment. I agree with some of what you are saying and i understand your perspective. I also feel that this post is necessary to let those know that they are all being forgiven their mistakes and are being directed in love to be more conscious of what they are doing here, and to respect the rules and guidelines of this site. In my opinion, Yshatar exercised her right to freedom, and posted what was on her mind and was honest about how she felt, which is more that what most people that i a have encountered in my life. (besides... Its her site and she can post if she wants too lol just kidding). We are all family, and family has a right and responsibility to honor eachother by respecting rules and being real about whats going on and how we feel. Anyway... Just sharing my thoughts :)

In love and light (smiling)
Khepri

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