Just wondering if anyone else on here is like me in the fact that they react badly to harsh words or sometimes even just blunt words and even when someone is not being mean you still react sensitively? Because I have that issue, actually I've always had this issue - I guess I was born with it, I take everything either seriously or react way too sensitively towards it.

I've been told numerous times that I'm too hypersensitive and to stop and change this, but I can't stop as it's something that's a part of me. 

I've heard that its a starseed thing - especially from those from higher realms but I just wanted to clarify to make sure. 

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yes... empath....

My wife is empathic, and this sounds very much like her, she feels others emotions in the words, and sometimes I believe she projects her own feelings or someone elses in the rooms feelings and associates them with the words of someone else by mistake.

well said, don't live up to all those expectations of others

be yourself..

I feel best being sensitive..... that 'hypersensitive' is BAD , is something society tells us

in a world drained for feeling, where feeling is looked at as being pathological

and any creature with feeling, must be caged in, and put on prozac, right away ;-)

feel too much you know

now i dont feel anymore, thank you doc

now it is all ok, all ok, yesterday was ok too

'i feel ok too'

it could be worse :D

be glad you got feelings... , better than being what culture wants to turn you to....

culture wants you to turn you to a robot, cold individual without feeling, without daring say your true opinion

for we have to be so responsible we are 80 yrs of age when we are 15....

and work is life you know, they say

Hi Kaigera. You are a kind soul and being hypersensitive isn't something you need to change but should cherish and accept it. It is a gift to feel everything intensely. I understand it can be hard at times, I've had such moments. As you come to loving that part of yourself it won't be such issue anymore. You'll see you are able to help many people with it. Blessings <3

It often goes in family.... i got adhd, and seemingly fibro. My mom has fibro. We're both extremely sensitive to noise in rooms, and also to people's negativity.

Complainers, selfvictimizers etc.

Because such people have taken up a neg. energy temporarily. Chosen to host it in themselves.

But that hurts when you know the beauty of the human soul..... we're not supposed to be hateful, fearful or angry individuals all the time

hating just to hate....

it is called 'sensitives'

empaths are just one kind of sensitives,,, many are intuitive or can train their intuition

with meditation you can train your intuition and find your intuitive gifts, and soul mission

we're all here for a Divine spiritua lreason... most people have forgotten their gift

often we got several unique gifts we can aid the world with...... I'm sensitive, so I can see into people

I feel when people are not themselves -- if they feel bad

So it would give me natural ability to work with people if i chose that, or in any work i do....

may see into the energy plane

Indigos,empaths often got many gifts.... computers,technology,music making etc...

http://hamderser.dk/blog/indigos-and-why-the-indigo-refuses-orders....

can you recog something there?

or maybe just empath...

indigos and empaths, thats what many often resonate with

here's the empath thing...

http://hamderser.dk/blog/the-intuitive-person-or-empath.html

and yes its due to higher realms... indigos may have indigo blue or purple aura..... third eye open... uranus energy -- cosmic consciousness... awakened from birth somewhat, then fall asleep later on, forget themselves, get into many addictions

empaths just feel people a lot.... and it hurts them too, but it is a big gift too

see above 2 urls if you want... something i've written, resonate with bit a both

met many empaths, and many many indigos by now

they're so similar often

peace

oh yes... dont they hate selfvictimizers and complainers too? nothing worse to me. I will always say stop to that.

they dont hate the person, just hearing that.... , they see the good in people

but seeing adults complain... it's not pretty to us... maybe you know

it hurts us... hurts me much

Yes Peace2theworld and Vala are right about that it is a beautiful gift and you should cherish it, but if you want to get rid of it and train yourself to be less sensitive, go with it! Remember there's nothing holding you back, you have free will and you can do whatever you want with yourself. I feel words to the point where someone even says love in a good intention my heart bursts with joy, but if someone says any swear words in a very negative manner, I have to set up a "wall" around me to protect my emotions. Have a very blessed day!!! Love to you and everyone <3 :)
This is most likely a form of social phobia.

It took me a long time to realize that social phobia in myself was controlling my life increasing stress and raising blood pressure in social situations.

I finally caught on when I realized I had "white coat syndrome" where my blood pressure soars at the doctors office.

It means you are in flight or fight mode. Anxiety reactions.

I'm not sure how to get over it. I truly don't care anymore. I also "disarm" folks with "how are you?", or "how about that weather?"

Once you realize that most folks have social anxiety in some way, you learn to see how they have coping mechanisms. One way (bullies and jerks) cope, is by taking the focus off of themselves by ridiculing others. This is why snappy comebacks are needed. Once you put them off kilter with a snappy comeback, the group will see the anxiety and weakness in the attacker and expect a better insult.

Sometimes saying puzzling nonsense is a good way too. It breaks the thought train and confuzes them.

If you can't dazzle with brilliance, baffle with BS.

Thank you for sharing this, it is so beautiful to read :)

lol "soul doesn't know a thing about deadlines" - that's a good thing i guess haha

hi Kaigera,,

Oh know all about that but have a tool that helps to break all those draining threads or sources of negative energy. It is as follows.. general purpose and works well too...

 I use the visualization of placing the personal problem (i.e. empty wallet problem project, work etc.), or person on a silver plate and hand it to my spirit guides and visualize them taking it into the light.. next I let it go from my mind completely. Repeat as many times as needed if the problem starts occupying my mind once again. Need to let the problem free for your guides to deal with. I have even done it with myself on the plate to break too many attachments I could not cope with.

 You will not hurt anyone doing this but what I have realized if someone has been very bad towards you it will break all connections including witchcraft and other dark things. You do not need to know who it even is.. just place the bad energy thread attached to you on the plate and include anything attached to the energy thread.. i.e. a dark blob etc. place it on the plate as well. Sometimes there may be many dark blobs. You can do this to someone who is not nice to you at work... and you will find they seem to back off and be happier about things. I feel it clears the bad stuff from them freeing them to enjoy more.

 Hope this makes sense and works for you. Best thing I have found so far that works quickly too.

About all I have to say..

Cheers Dave

Yes, as a child and teenager, I suffered terribly with this. I suffered bullying and would react very badly to criticisms or playground taunts. I could never explain it. Only as I matured did I understand that there was nothing wrong with me. Rather, I was just a sensitive soul maturing in an intensive environment. As I have gotten older, I have been able to control my feelings much better. I am still a sensitive soul but I am less affected by other people's words and actions.

The struggles of an empath.

I wish I could be of more help.

Amartya.

Thank you for sharing. I myself am hypersensitive, I have had to try and put into perspective every piece of information I receive, especially when doing the Q/A work I have done in here. I understand that I am still new here and many see me as such, and that I actually did not know that the thread would grow to the size it has so I would say this has caused me some worry but I'm learning to deal with it. Emotions, any kind, positive or negative energy affects me deeply on a personal level.

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