A cuddle Party, my oarenty, my inner child... Compassion, Understanding, Healing... A beautiful experience

A wonderful experience occured yesterday that blessed me deeply. I wish to share its blessings from my heart <3

I went to a kuddle party. A kuddle party is an organised - in this case - evening, where people come together to meet and touch each other, and to dance.

It was healing, very healing, and also, and that goes along with the healing, blessing me with great compassion for my self, my parents, and all.

What I realised, is that almost all, if not all, issues that I carry, that come up in the encounters with all these individuals are related to my relationships with my parents.

In this space, where people are close, and accept each other, caring, touching, keeping on no matter what thoughts come up, I got blessed with a deep sense of acceptance and anchored in a knowing that there is nothing to fight.

Sri Bhagavan said, as we "put right" our relationships to our parents, we are guaranteed to enlighten, to gain mukhti or liberation - now i understand this more intimately.

Family is not an easy topic for everyone, and even those that seem to have an "easy" or "happy" family life on the surface, might have something going on in the deepness.

I realise the value, and the beauty, of caring about our relationships to mom and dad, which are one with the relationships to ourself, to myself.

The evening was also called "workshop for nonverbial kommunication", and it is communication, supportive and healing.

My heart experienced healing, opening, and i got a nice new understanding, and therefor compassion, with us all. This is so beautiful and I give everyone my recommendation to go to such a gathering.

As I allow myself to experience all that there is it changes, i heal, i am free, my heart is free, because the pain is no longer my enemy, which takes away its pain if you understand :)

Sri Bhagavan said all relationships mirror our relationship to our parents. At first, like many spiritual statements or ideas, it frightened me, and this might well be different for you :), with a sense of meaninglessness. But I can say now that this is not the case. As my journey procedes I realise the value of that which seemed to me like a loss. I realise the beauty of these statements and that all those ideas of mastery, of enlightenmend, of these all mirroring these relationships are beautiful and enriching realisations once realised, and that they deliver us ourselves.

To the above mentioned one, all relationships being mirrors of those to our parents, I have another statement by Sri Bhagavan. That you understand the struggle I had, i thought what about the real beings and my relationship to them? is all this unreal? Sri Bhagavan also states that we, as unliberated, lost the ability to experience another being, another person. This is what intimacy is i see it clearly now. What is mirrored is mirrored until it is healed which allows greater intimacy and connectedness to the essence, the innocent, unique, pure being that i meet.

I believe now that all or most of our issues are issues related to our parents in many ways, things we heal in selflove and meditation. The cuddle party is a wonderful enriching experience that allows this healing to occur so beautifully and deeply in many ways blessing us in many ways, and all of our relationships with more clarity towards the unique being that is before us, and the compassionate understanding of its pain :)

I liked how Yeshua, Jesus advises us to look at our resistances and issues of any kind as if they were a child or animal and feel its pain its fear and also its courage, simply feel and watch it.

I didn't think of it during the evening as I allowed myself as much as i could to just be aware and experience what goes on in and around me what i realise more and more to be all in me in terms of mirrors of my issues. But as one after the other feeling or issue came up gently and was experienced and healed, i had just that realisation or experience of my child, I Am A Child, being healed. It is our child that is hurt, that carries, and the same goes for all of us.

I am so grateful for this deeper understanding of myself, my parents, all of us. We all are a child, unique, but we share innocence, purity, courage and the experience of being human with all the challenges it carries with it.

If we want to experience liberation, or ascension to the 5th as i understand it, dealing with our relationships is a beautiful and very rewarding way to heal and proceed.

As always we can ask for guidance, clarity and help within and above. It makes everything easier. To be present. To expand. Everything :)

I'm with you all. We are here together, even our family members, they carry what we carry, and they are children themselves.

In Love and Light

Daniel

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Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 7:42am

Before I went there I was inspired by this message:
http://lightworkers.org/channeling/163774/feel-moment-you
With the following sentence in it:

How can your mind become one with your feelings  if it, your conscious mind/ your conscious awareness is not allowed  to spend time feeling the moment?

I realised that Oneness means and embodying Our Sweet Unique Self fully means that - blending our thinking and feeling side into One to be fully One.

This is a great process, the entering into now, and in feeling the Now I went to that place.

We do not have to go to such a gathering, as we meet people, also without talking, everywhere. The communication that comes in these gatherings, and as we feel the moment and what goes on in us is deeper than words, so much deeper. Still I recommend the cuddle party as it nurtures, accepts and heals verymuch and when I spoke about understanding I meant one that is deeper than logic or understanding of word, is is understanding of this bigger me, that is beyong seperation in mind and feelingside.

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 8:07am

Thank you very much for your kind, nice and empowering words. Osho was one of the first beings who inspired me on my path of discovering myself and what life really is :)
Thank you for your shared experiences and insights too.

THank you it is an honor and delight to be here with you :)

<3

Thank you bright one

<3 <3 <3

Thank you

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 8:16am

I share that one with you :)
My parents are progressing so much, they are so couragous, so nice and lovely, i am so proud and happy, while they did worry about what i did and believed, and made sometimes fun of me - I am living with them since early may when i returned from my australian journey and it is so nice how this family is healing and my parents shine. I adore their qualities. They are beautiful and i can learn also from them. It is all developping so nice, and it is nice already.

Thanks for that one :)

<3 <3 <3 :)

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 8:17am

<3

raven angel said:

like wise daniel! osho was also one of my first teachers.. thankyou.. you have actually given me some more insights and reflections on the path and this has been a healing experience to talk of and an honour to know you 

love and blessings :)

Daniel Tietz said:

Thank you very much for your kind, nice and empowering words. Osho was one of the first beings who inspired me on my path of discovering myself and what life really is :)
Thank you for your shared experiences and insights too.

THank you it is an honor and delight to be here with you :)

<3

Thank you bright one

<3 <3 <3

Thank you

Permalink Reply by Gil on July 22, 2012 at 9:10am

Daniel, thank you for sharing this beautiful & meaningful experience which illuminates the resolution of separation & duality into wholeness. 

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 1:32pm

Thank you both for your nice responses <3

I want to share something that happened just this afternoon.

My brother visited us, and after i said i went to a cuddleparty he asked what went wrong with me. THat something went wrong with me along the way, telling a story how he told my stepfamily something about my weirdness and my stepniece asking why is he so cracy ? :)

It was ok, but i felt inside myself. As I got blessed from this evening with great allowance and acceptance and also ability to stay aware and accepting towards all feelings inside while moving deeper i did just that. I was there, feeling without purpose. But hey thats me and my brother and thats what i feel, thats whats there in us or me. And i felt and i experienced again how the deep seeing of this child caused a great change in the energy because there was nomore denial of that which was unseen. As this shift happened also a shift within my brother happened. I do not know how he experienced and if he likes to read it if he should ever read this, but i felt clearly something wonderful happening, something deep, with our inner children. This human journey is so beautiful, this compassion, this child that is so human, that we are here. I really love humanity, and this experience very much. I say that now ;)

I do understand and like that the cuddle party also was called "workshop for nonverbal communication" as this is what it blessed me with. This deepness, witnessing it, and as i did that with my brother, experienced it with my brother i felt also an opening of heart within myself. This is the gift. Communication of the heart. Deeper than words or logic. From child to child, from essence to essence, from heart to heart. I am so happy that i got this gift and that i can share it here.

Compassion and a new sense of purity are wonderful gifts of the earthly journey. The healing of heart is a wonderful experience and journey.

Thank you all for being here

Thank all

Thank you

thanks

Im so grateful right now :)

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 6:10pm

Yes! and thank you :)

raven angel said:

thats an amasing experience Daniel yes gifts of the heart, purity and communication are
a blessing well after all it was said the pure of heart will inherate the earth and its so true! truth is healing and a blessing much love and im very grateful on this post to you.. we walk.. communicate and feel in new glowing awareness :)

Permalink Reply by Daniel on July 22, 2012 at 6:13pm

Thank you love and freedom.

I did not change them. Nobody can change anybody but it might be supportive ;)

I am very proud and happy.

Sri Bhagavan said that a part of Awakening is the blossoming of heart.

Now i understand what he said a great bit better :)

Keep on keeping on

and thank you very much for your nice words. Thank you

love & freedom said:

daniel so beautiful your story...it was you who changed you parents, by healing yourself right? for some reason i can not talk wonderfully to them and as you say, acceptance is there too what do. it is so nice to see your main mirror changing.. before i changed the mirror (instead of loving parents used other people as substitute)... it must have been hard for them..:S

thanks for sharing, as all your posts just wonderful and they coem at right time for me all the time..:)

may you continue feeling grateful and happy :)

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